Building Strength From Within: How the Community Resiliency Model (CRM®) Can Guide You Toward Greater Resilience
- Lorrie Smith-Esterle
- Sep 21
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 23
As a psychiatric nurse practitioner, one of the most common themes I see in my work is the human capacity for resilience. Life brings stress, trauma, and uncertainty—but it also brings opportunities to learn how to steady ourselves in the midst of challenges. One evidence-based approach that I often share with patients is the Community Resiliency Model (CRM®).
CRM was developed by the Trauma Resource Institute to give people practical tools to manage stress and enhance well-being. Unlike traditional talk therapy, CRM focuses less on “what happened” and more on “what is happening in the body right now.” It’s designed to be accessible to anyone, not just those in therapy.
The Body’s Natural Balance
Our nervous system has a natural rhythm. When we face stress, our body may go into fight, flight, or freeze. While these responses are normal, if we stay “stuck” in them too long, it can lead to anxiety, depression, irritability, or feeling disconnected from ourselves.
CRM teaches us to recognize this balance through the concept of the “Resilient Zone.” This is the state where we feel calm, capable, and able to handle life. Stress can push us above the zone (anxious, agitated, restless) or below it (numb, shut down, disconnected). The good news is that with practice, we can learn to bring ourselves back into that resilient zone.
Six Wellness Skills of CRM
The model offers six simple, yet powerful, wellness skills:
Tracking – Noticing sensations in the body, both pleasant and unpleasant, to become more aware of how stress and safety feel.
Resourcing – Identifying people, places, memories, or strengths that bring comfort and stability.
Grounding – Using the senses to connect with the present moment, such as feeling your feet on the floor or noticing textures around you.
Gesturing – Using natural body movements that help the nervous system feel supported, like placing a hand on the heart or taking a calming breath.
Help Now! Strategies – Quick tools to use when distress feels overwhelming, such as counting colors in the room or pushing against a wall.
Shift and Stay – Noticing when your body feels even slightly calmer, and staying with that sensation long enough for your system to register safety.
Why This Matters
Building resilience doesn’t mean eliminating stress—it means training the nervous system to return to balance more easily. Just as we exercise to strengthen our muscles, these practices help strengthen our emotional and physical capacity to manage challenges.
As part of my doctoral work, I completed my DNP project on the Community Resiliency Model. Through this project, I was able to see firsthand how these skills can improve emotional regulation, reduce symptoms of stress, and enhance overall well-being. What I love about CRM is that it isn’t limited to the therapy room—it can be shared in schools, workplaces, faith communities, and families.
Over time, these practices can improve sleep, reduce anxiety, and help us feel more connected to ourselves and others.
A Final Thought
Resilience is not about being “tough” all the time—it’s about learning how to return to a sense of balance when life feels overwhelming. The Community Resiliency Model offers tools that anyone can use, anytime, anywhere.
If you’d like to learn more about CRM or explore how these skills could support your mental health journey, I’d be honored to talk with you. Together, we can strengthen the pathways that bring more calm, connection, and hope into daily life.
Source
Community Resiliency Model® (CRM) is a wellness program developed by the Trauma Resource Institute. CRM teaches skills to help individuals and communities build resilience and restore balance to the nervous system.
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